Yvonne
Supporting your child
When my son was three, he was diagnosed
with ADHD. At age five he was diagnosed with hearing loss in his left
ear and a severe speech impediment. At the age of 11, he was diagnosed
with bipolar disorder, which accounted for his violent mood swings.
I felt like I was living on an emotional
roller coaster. I never knew how my son would be from one moment to the
next. One minute he was laughing and carrying on, then the next minute
he wanted to rip your head off, then he would be sad and miserable the
next time a mood swing came by.
Finally after 6 months of repeating the
same thing to his neurologist, he was diagnosed with bipolar disorder.
In the two years since then, he has been put on medication for bipolar
disorder, in addition to the medication he takes for his ADHD and his
most recent diagnosis, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD). Today he is
a lot more pleasant to be around. We are making progress. On days when
he is under stress, he does have delusions. We tell him, "tell the
delusions to go away."
We now have community support with my son’s
counselor, and he has made great progress. Living with this disorder is
not fun, but it can be done. Make yourself knowledgeable about the
disorder and always tell the child it is not his fault, it is an
illness. Above all, always support your child, no matter what.
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