Giving back the help I received
I suffered my first severe bipolar episode in 1986
when I was 29 years old. I lived in Mexico City at the time, and
unfortunately, the quality of the doctors I saw and the medicine I
received was very poor. It was a very painful experience, but after
two years of fighting almost alone, I recovered my health. At that
time, I thought that what happened was due to the stress of running my
own business.
I opened two business franchises in the United
States, and another in Mexico. I worked very hard. I thought I was
pretty close to giving my family the economical security they needed.
Then suddenly, at the end of 1999, I had another episode.
This episode was terrible. I fought the illness. I
stayed up for five days straight and took a number of pills to try to
get to sleep. I could not accept that I needed help. I asked my boss
for seven days off work to rest and he said no. Worried about losing
my job, and not knowing any American doctors, I returned to Mexico
City and the first doctor I had seen in 1986.
Seven days later, my boss fired me. So, I was sick,
looking without luck for a good doctor in Mexico City, and my wife and
kids were in Houston. I was desperate, so I went back to Houston to
wait until my son finished second grade.
In the meantime, through a friend, I found a job in
Mexico City. I was trying to get better but I wasn’t taking the
right medications. They made me sleep almost all day long. Just one
month before my family and I came back to Mexico City, to re-start a
new life and job, my wife found a good doctor in Houston and I started
taking new medications. The change was just great. I felt
"normal" again very quickly.
That happened three years ago. Now I am in a
partnership with a friend in a new business. On Fridays I take the day
off and visit people who are ill or need help, trying to give them
comfort and love. Now I am visiting a clinic that takes care of people
with mental illness, because a friend of mine has a son with bipolar
disorder. Now I have three friends who I visit.
I give thanks to God for giving me the opportunity
of give back the help I received from my family. It pays to stick with
treatment to stay well and prevent future troubles.